tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347632.post115305337127873224..comments2024-03-22T19:42:26.549+08:00Comments on PY: Of choices and pathsoceanskies79http://www.blogger.com/profile/15637499843542653266noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347632.post-1153145857337783922006-07-17T22:17:00.000+08:002006-07-17T22:17:00.000+08:00Pinkie: It sometimes take a lot of courage to brea...Pinkie: It sometimes take a lot of courage to break free from the norms.<BR/><BR/>JY: Well said. Navigating in life seems a challenge.<BR/><BR/>Hilda: Thanks for sharing the insight. I would say I am overwhelmed with the choices.oceanskies79https://www.blogger.com/profile/15637499843542653266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347632.post-1153144377853004682006-07-17T21:52:00.000+08:002006-07-17T21:52:00.000+08:00I spent many years being unhappy because I wasn't ...I spent many years being unhappy because I wasn't fulfilling my destiny. Yet how could I if I didn't even know what it was? More recently I've come to the conclusion that there is no pre-determined path for us. Had there been one for me my life would be completely different from how it is now, yet I am very happy with the way things have turned out. For better or for worse, it IS our choices which dictate our path rather than the other way around. This is scary but also empowering. <BR/><BR/>But I do agree with you that it's easy to get overwhelmed by all the choices. We need to stop thinking that all our choices are wrong and that some other choice must be right. This brings a lot of unhappiness. Make a choice, forget about the others, and enjoy the outcomes. At worst, your choice will turn out to be wrong and you can use it as a learning experience. Just don't spend all of your 20's dwelling on all these choices, making none, and being miserable in the process like I did.<BR/><BR/>You are quite wise. Try to trust yourself more.Hildahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06983832246471151350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347632.post-1153059480310646372006-07-16T22:18:00.000+08:002006-07-16T22:18:00.000+08:00hehheh, that's life, dear. you navigate where you ...hehheh, that's life, dear. you navigate where you want to go, even though you may not really know where you want to go.goldilockshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07204440640506601047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347632.post-1153056084544899632006-07-16T21:21:00.000+08:002006-07-16T21:21:00.000+08:00yeah, seems like there's always a order to everyth...yeah, seems like there's always a order to everything and sometimes when we do break free from the norms, we are deemed 'weird'? <BR/><BR/>internal compass? I wish I have.pinkiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11248789461446442228noreply@blogger.com